"Life is a long rehearsal for a film that is never made"- Marlene Dietrich
Bette Davis had recently resigned as President of the Academy. In 1941, the 33-year-old assumed Hollywood's top job, proposed doing away with dinner and dancing at the Oscars and revoking the right of extras to vote — ideas that were later implemented — and was met with such great resistance that she stepped down after less than two months.
Davis hadn’t made it in Hollywood on her looks. She was smart, talented and suffered no fools, earning her the reputation of being “difficult” — and numerous contract suspensions — at Warner's, and it wasn’t long before the Academy’s board discovered her no-nonsense side. “At the first meeting I presided at as president. I arrived with full knowledge of my rights of office. I had studied the by-laws. It became clear to me that this was a surprise. I was not supposed to preside intelligently.”
She had two big initiatives she immediately pushed to enact. First, she wanted to reformat the annual Academy Awards banquet. Since her election, Pearl Harbor had been attacked, thrusting America into World War II and prompting calls for the cancellation of the Oscars, which had theretofore centered around dinner and dancing. She argued that it would be more appropriate to scrap the dinner and dancing and present the awards in a large theater, charging at least $25 a seat and donating the proceeds to war relief efforts. “The members of the board were horrified,” she later said. “Such an evening would rob the Academy of all dignity.”
Her other idea was to revoke the right of Hollywood’s thousands of extras to vote for the Oscars. She argued that many of them lacked taste, culture and “didn’t even speak English” — and besides, there were indications that their votes could be swung behind whichever studio hired them around the time of balloting. Davis later said the board regarded this as “the wildest thing they’d ever heard” and Wanger, now the first vice president, spoke up and “wanted to know what I had against the Academy.”

"My god, I had black hair — it was photographed blue-black it was so dark — and thick bushy eyebrows. And my mother and father had to stop them from dying my hair and plucking out my eyebrows. The studio even wanted to change my name to Virginia. They tried to get me to create a Joan Crawford mouth when I first began using lipstick at fifteen. They wanted, you know, Joan Crawford, the ‘40s and everything. Every movie star, Lana Turner, all of them, painted over their lips: and I’m sure that some of them had perfectly fine, full lips — but thin eyebrows were the fad…and God forbid you do anything individual or go against the fad. But I did. I figured this looks absurd. And I agreed with my dad: God must have had some reason for giving me bushy eyebrows and black hair. I guess I must have been pretty sure of my sense of identity. It was me. I accepted it all my life and I can’t explain it. Because I’ve always been very aware of the inner me that has nothing to do with the physical me"
There have been motion pictures made about the collapse of marriages. Scenes froth with denial, anger, depression, to bitter custody battles and destructive emotions of jealousy and abuse. Some that comes to mind like Scenes from a Marriage (1974), Kramer vs. Kramer (1979), An Unmarried Woman (1979), and more recently A Marriage Story (2019). But none of them in my opinion quite captured the confusion, heartbreak, and turmoil like Shoot the Moon (1982). The phrase "shoot the moon," comes from the card game hearts. It refers to taking a risk when playing your hand to achieve a higher score.
Set against a wet and foggy San Francisco, the Dunlaps live in a ranch house (which was a 114-year-old Roy ranch house, moved and rebuilt). As George (Finney) and Faith (Keaton) are both getting ready for an International Book Awards dinner, their oldest daughter Sherry (Hill) overhears a phone conversation between her dad and his lover. At the awards, the mood is tense. By morning, George and Faith have it out and he moves in with Sandy (Black). He sees off his daughters at school but Sherry (the oldest), doesn't want to have anything to do with her unfaithful father. Meanwhile, Faith starts an affair with Frank (Peter Weller), a contractor who has been hired to build a tennis court on their property. But as Faith seemingly is moving forward, George grows increasingly unstable and violent. I must warn those who haven't seen the film, that there are scenes of violence and abuse that can be hard to watch.
This is not the usual Keaton, known for playing neurotic and quirky characters. Drawing from her recent breakup with Warren Beatty, she gives an emotionally naked performance. As a result, she garnered a Golden Globe, a National Society of Film Critics, and, a New York Film Critics Circle nomination.
As for Finney, I couldn't believe this was the same actor that played the gruff but lovable Daddy Warbucks in Annie (also in 1982). He's anguished and fragile yet disturbingly brutal. He also received nominations from British Academy Film Awards and the Golden Globes.
Albert Finney's thoughts on his character,
"It required personal acting; I had to dig into myself. When you have to expose yourself and use your own vulnerability, you can get a little near the edge. Scenes, where Diane Keaton and I have to go at each other, reminded me of times when my behavior has been monstrous."
On my first screening of the film a few years after its release, I remembered how it hitting so close to home because my parent's marriage also ended in 1982. Upon re-visiting the film for this review, I forgot how quiet it is. The non-explosive scenes that lingered on with no dialogue hit me right in the gut. Shoot the Moon is up there on my list of most under-appreciated films. Film critic writes Andrew Gleiberman, “To this day, the film touches nerves about what the end of a marriage is really about that virtually no film has approached since.”
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| Letter welcoming the production to Shoot to the Moon |
"If you really do want to be an actor who can satisfy himself and his audience, you need to be vulnerable"
"It only took a day to happen but I'm in love with you for always"